We Embody wisdom, objectivity, penetrate insight, have excellent communication
skills, and deal with symbols, ritual and mystery.
We Hold the tension
of desperate, sometimes contradictory information, feelings and relationships, while remaining detached and clear headed.
We Face,embrace , go through, and transform fear into an ally, when
grappling with difficult situations or relationships.
Unaddressed fear causes people to slip into one of the two shadows.
WE WILL SHINE SOME LIGHT AND REVEAL THE SHADOW!
The deflated shadow, tends to be consumed and confused by the fear, becomes gridlocked in his thinking and
simply doesn’t know what to do. This deflated shadow is characterized as the Dummy. The inflated
shadow is likewise held captive by fear, but shrouds it in a life of pretense, illusion, self righteousness and hidden agendas.
The inflated shadow is also called the Manipulator.
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Your Mature self manifests the following characteristics.
•
Is insightful
•
Sees quickly to the heart of problems
•
Holds and processes many dimensions of information at the same time
•
Stays calm and detached during crises
•
Is good at assessing options and offering advice
•
Is keenly sensitive to the truth. Not easily fooled or manipulated
•
Adapts his/her perspective so as to be understood by other people
•
Holds
impressions of situations without making quick judgments
•
Holds
impressions of people without
judging them or labeling them
•
Sees
meaning in symbolism and ritual
•
Is thoughtful, reflective, objective, detached
•
Deals
comfortably
with abstractions
•
Is comfortable exploring
mysteries or paradox
•
Faces and goes through his/her fears
•
Recognizes cycles and patterns
•
Keeps learning
; is open to ideas
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the Deflated shadow manifests the following characteristics.
•
Has trouble thinking clearly when under pressure
•
Has to have all the data when
making a recommendation
•
Fears making a mistake
•
Is set in his/her ways; once a view is developed of something, he/she seldom changes
•
Views situations and assesses people in black and white
•
Is quick to judge
•
Has trouble organizing his/her schedule
•
Can be confused or misled easily by others
•
Tends to think that others are smarter
•
Has a disorganized mind.
_______________________________________________________
The Inflated shadow
The
Manipulator
Your Inflated shadow manifests the following characteristics.
•
Likes the idea of manipulating others to get what he/
she wants
•
Does not like to disclose information about himself/herself
•
Does not want others to know what he/she is thinking
•
Likes to control a situation from a distance
•
Likes to win by outwitting others
•
Does not share the full truth about a situation, an is
sue or a person
•
Believes he/she knows what is the best idea in any situation
•
Is suspicious of others
•
Uses humor to hurt other people
•
Uses knowledge as a weapon (“I know something you don’t know.”)
http://www.oncourseinternational.com/onlineLibrary/pdfs/Inner_Advisors_Overview_Document.pdf
skills, and deal with symbols, ritual and mystery.
We Hold the tension
of desperate, sometimes contradictory information, feelings and relationships, while remaining detached and clear headed.
We Face,embrace , go through, and transform fear into an ally, when
grappling with difficult situations or relationships.
Unaddressed fear causes people to slip into one of the two shadows.
WE WILL SHINE SOME LIGHT AND REVEAL THE SHADOW!
The deflated shadow, tends to be consumed and confused by the fear, becomes gridlocked in his thinking and
simply doesn’t know what to do. This deflated shadow is characterized as the Dummy. The inflated
shadow is likewise held captive by fear, but shrouds it in a life of pretense, illusion, self righteousness and hidden agendas.
The inflated shadow is also called the Manipulator.
_____________________________________________________________
Your Mature self manifests the following characteristics.
•
Is insightful
•
Sees quickly to the heart of problems
•
Holds and processes many dimensions of information at the same time
•
Stays calm and detached during crises
•
Is good at assessing options and offering advice
•
Is keenly sensitive to the truth. Not easily fooled or manipulated
•
Adapts his/her perspective so as to be understood by other people
•
Holds
impressions of situations without making quick judgments
•
Holds
impressions of people without
judging them or labeling them
•
Sees
meaning in symbolism and ritual
•
Is thoughtful, reflective, objective, detached
•
Deals
comfortably
with abstractions
•
Is comfortable exploring
mysteries or paradox
•
Faces and goes through his/her fears
•
Recognizes cycles and patterns
•
Keeps learning
; is open to ideas
_________________________________________________________________
the Deflated shadow manifests the following characteristics.
•
Has trouble thinking clearly when under pressure
•
Has to have all the data when
making a recommendation
•
Fears making a mistake
•
Is set in his/her ways; once a view is developed of something, he/she seldom changes
•
Views situations and assesses people in black and white
•
Is quick to judge
•
Has trouble organizing his/her schedule
•
Can be confused or misled easily by others
•
Tends to think that others are smarter
•
Has a disorganized mind.
_______________________________________________________
The Inflated shadow
The
Manipulator
Your Inflated shadow manifests the following characteristics.
•
Likes the idea of manipulating others to get what he/
she wants
•
Does not like to disclose information about himself/herself
•
Does not want others to know what he/she is thinking
•
Likes to control a situation from a distance
•
Likes to win by outwitting others
•
Does not share the full truth about a situation, an is
sue or a person
•
Believes he/she knows what is the best idea in any situation
•
Is suspicious of others
•
Uses humor to hurt other people
•
Uses knowledge as a weapon (“I know something you don’t know.”)
http://www.oncourseinternational.com/onlineLibrary/pdfs/Inner_Advisors_Overview_Document.pdf
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